If you’re reading this on July 9, it’s my 43rd wedding anniversary--over four decades of looking at, listening to, laughing with, and loving my favourite person. Having written that ... Have you ever woken up and not cared one iota about your appearance? You may have a list of things you’d like to accomplish in your day, but you foresee no seeing or speaking to anyone else, so you decide to drop the ball. I’m not talking about feeling depressed, but rather having a c’est la v